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Another 10 Important Dating Tips for Man
By mike | March 15, 2008
Beginning with the saying that “you never get a second chance to make a good first impression” men shall always keep in mind that the first impressions on women are really very important. More that that, they shall be fully prepared to look great on each date they go on. Here below are some tips addressed to men on making an impression that will dwell and bring fruits.
1. Be Fresh
Remember that the first appearance really counts and that women are very sensitive to bad smells, and bad looking. Women are considered the cleanest and the most accurate features in the world. That is why, if you non-intentionally go out on a date, especially to a first date, and you are unshaven, look dirty and smell, this turns to be the worst things you could do. Women will certainly pay attention to how you look and smell and will partly judge you on how hygienic you are. To avoid this, take a bath and make an effort to look and smell nice. It doesn’t cost you much and you shall not allow women assume this is how you are all the time, but allow her see beyond your appearance.
2. Be on Time
If you come up late, you risk sending out wrong impressions. She may firstly think that it is not fair for a woman to stay out waiting, and then, after you come up, think that you are irresponsible, unreliable, and not caring about her. In case you agree to come and pick her up from home, then try your best and be on time, it is much better to arrive five minutes earlier, not more because you will find her putting up her wear or still adjusting her makeup. But don’t be late even for a few minutes.
3. Be Gentleman
The way you flirt and take care of her will say a lot about you. Women like to feel very special and if you’ll treat her like a lady moving her chair and helping her dress the coat, then she will only admire you and think you are fantastic. Hold the door open and let her walk through it first, be polite to her along with the people around you, introduce her lovely to your acquaintances and friends.
4. Be Generous
Any attention makes a woman feel special. A gift will do its work and will show much about you, especially if it is a thoughtful gift. From the first dating or from your conversations on the internet or telephone you may find out what is her favorite occupation. If she likes to raise flowers, you may give her a chocolate rose. That is more than appropriate for the beginning of a long dating.
5. Be Patient and Listen
Women are the features that like to describe situations. If you intend to know her more, then be patient to listen to what she is telling about herself. Ask questions to let her know you are interested in her life and care about her interests. Women are attracted to men who can patiently and interested listen. This is a way of getting to know each other.
6. Make Compliments
Women like to feel beautiful and to be complimented. Many times they buy new accessories, change some elements of their style and hope to hear compliments with reference to this. Observe things and try to find sincere and smart compliment. The first thing to say to a woman is that she looks beautiful. To keep the biggest impact, keep other compliments up throughout the date, but not more than 4 in order not to appear unreal.
7. Prepare the Topic
To avoid silent moments during your date, do your homework – think in advance about what you would like to know about her and what topic would transform your meal in an interesting discussion. You may find a general subject that would not require special knowledge, but avoid asking and talking about past relations. During your conversation keep the focus on the subject, be involved, interested and address attention to her.
8. Pay for Both
Despite the fact that nowadays women may insist to go dutch while paying for a meal, men shall offer to pay entirely for the date. It is already considered an old custom, but you will show that you are gentlemen, fact that will show positive qualities of yourself. For avoiding any misunderstandings, make sure she knows you are going to pay for the date.
9. Kiss Her Goodnight
A quick kiss after the fist date usually shows to both of you whether you are attracted by each other. Some women, on the other side, prefer not to be kissed after the first date and you should be really careful in this case. In any case, you should follow body language in order to determine the following move.
10. Don’t Promise to Call
Women are sensitive and anything you say may be taken as serious. If, after the first meeting, you are not interested in seeing her again, don’t promise to call. Thus, not to hurt the woman you just dated, tell her it was nice to meet her or just smile to her and leave.
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