Dating Advice For a Man » Relationship & Friendship

Five Cheap Dates

mike — Mon, 31 Mar 2008 07:22:40 +0000

You can have a great, cheap date without thinking money talks. Here are four ideas to impress your date without declaring bankruptcy:

1. Rent a Movie

You can duplicate the cinema experience by renting a favorite movie, making popcorn, and dimming the lights. Your date might even appreciate the extra leg room and ability to pause the flick for a restroom break.

2. Sip Mocha Lattes

Starbucks can be your best friend when it comes to lounging with your date, shooting the breeze, and sipping your favorite coffee beverage. You might even take your relationship to a deeper level thanks to the coffee talk.

3. Share a Sundae on Sunday

Take a trip to your local ice cream store and build a sundae together. You’ll flirt over the toppings and sit close together as you spoon your way to sugar heaven.

4. Walk in the Park

Combine exercise and fitness with romance

Few tips when You are Going on a Date

mike — Thu, 28 Feb 2008 23:05:54 +0000

If you are one of the millions who play the “dating” game, you will probably be asking yourself this question for a long time, “Do I look good?” Throughout your life, you will notice a lot of different signs that some girls like and some girls dislike, but the lessons you encounter over the years will help you in your journey to get married. How about you sit back, relax and take a detailed look at a few tips that might help you spice up some things that will help your chances of keeping the one you love.
The saying

you never get a second chance to make a good first impression

is so true when it comes to discussing this topic. When you first meet a girl, a first impression is entirely important; otherwise the girl wouldn’t even talk to you.
Since you got that out of the way, the next part is asking the girl out on a date, which is usually a tough thing for a guy to do. Once you’ve done that, it’s time to get ready for that date. One thing you might want to do before you go on your first date is shower.
Many guys think that they can dab on some deodorant and some cologne and they are fine, but what they don’t know is that your pores might still stink from all the sweating you’ve done during the day. Take my advice; take a shower before you go on your first date! The whole impressing the date with a fancy car and fancy clothes really isn’t as important as arriving on time and the girl will appreciate that more than the other two. Normally if you’re late on a first date or any date, the girl will think you might have stood or up which can lead her to believe that you would do that more than once, which would lessen your chances of seeing her again. Showing up on time is an important role in the dating game so make sure you do so.

Since we’ve gotten the first part of the dating scene out of the way for the man, we now should move on to even a more basic role in the dating game, being a gentleman. There are so many things you can do for a girl that will impress her once you’ve made it past her house, or even if you are at her house. Holding the door for the girl, give her a hug or a kiss; shake her parent’s hands, etc. These are just a few to name, but the list goes on and on. Once you’ve left the house, make sure you pull in or out her chair if you are going out to eat or let her walk in first. While the whole “being a gentleman” part of the date is tedious in its own way, there is always the conversation part that can be quite stressful also. Woman love to chat, so make sure you can put on a great conversation act. If you know what the girl is into, then bring up topics that she’d be interested in. Whatever you do, don’t bore her with information either about yourself in a conceded way or stuff that makes absolutely no sense, she’d probably be laughing “at” you not “with” you.

Once the date is over, you will more than likely drive the girl back to her house. If you are really interested in her, you will be the gentleman that you are and give her a nice goodnight kiss or a hug, some girls like hugs on the first date but that’s something you will have to decide since all girls are different. One thing many guys do is tell the girl that they will call her again and don’t. That is a big “no-no” and can really hurt your chances of finding another girl around that area, especially if the girl you are seeing is friends with a lot of other girls in that particular area. If you are interested in the girl and you would like to call her again, let her know, otherwise just end the date with a goodbye, etc.

Man and woman friendship

mike — Tue, 05 Feb 2008 21:51:51 +0000

Do you have friends of the opposite sex? I consider myself quite a broad-minded person, who is open to build relationships that are not all about sex, but none of the friendships with the opposite sex survived long enough. What’s the matter?

I think that any relationships that involve individuals of the opposite sex always have an air of “that thing”. You cannot deny it. Like flirt is the same “light erotic turn-on” towards the object of your interest, friendship is a kind of latent sex attraction that one day will just find its way out. The only exception I see is in a situation where your friend has homosexual orientation.

Just think when we say this phrase: “Can we just be friends?” Right, when we know there is no chance for any sexual relationships with that person. No one actually expects to keep a friendship alive, as that is a best excuse not to hurt someone’s feelings.

As for the friendship itself, it’s hard to say there is nothing going on between two of you, when you obviously find each other to be a nice companion to share your thoughts and feelings. If you find that person sexually attractive, you unconsciously put your energy to get close to him. May be friendship is this very way to start something more intimate.
In fact does a friendship between men and women exist? As the old saying: men are from Mars and women are from Venus. We can have a lot of common interests and share tastes, but when facing each other we rarely find that much mutual thing unless we are attuned to. I am not sure whether my point of view is somewhat feminine, but no man will make me believe that his intentions are “far from sexual interests”. That interest may not manifest itself as a pure “get laid” thing, but it almost always have the element of sexual attraction which under happy circumstances will end up with the question: “What are you doing tonight?“