1. Be Fresh

Remember that the first appearance really counts and that women are very sensitive to bad smells, and bad looking. Women are considered the cleanest and the most accurate features in the world. That is why, if you non-intentionally go out on a date, especially to a first date, and you are unshaven, look dirty and smell, this turns to be the worst things you could do. Women will certainly pay attention to how you look and smell and will partly judge you on how hygienic you are. To avoid this, take a bath and make an effort to look and smell nice. It doesn’t cost you much and you shall not allow women assume this is how you are all the time, but allow her see beyond your appearance.

2. Be on Time

If you come up late, you risk sending out wrong impressions. She may firstly think that it is not fair for a woman to stay out waiting, and then, after you come up, think that you are irresponsible, unreliable, and not caring about her. In case you agree to come and pick her up from home, then try your best and be on time, it is much better to arrive five minutes earlier, not more because you will find her putting up her wear or still adjusting her makeup. But don’t be late even for a few minutes.

3. Be Gentleman

4. Be Generous

Any attention makes a woman feel special. A gift will do its work and will show much about you, especially if it is a thoughtful gift. From the first dating or from your conversations on the internet or telephone you may find out what is her favorite occupation. If she likes to raise flowers, you may give her a chocolate rose. That is more than appropriate for the beginning of a long dating.

5. Be Patient and Listen

Women are the features that like to describe situations. If you intend to know her more, then be patient to listen to what she is telling about herself. Ask questions to let her know you are interested in her life and care about her interests. Women are attracted to men who can patiently and interested listen. This is a way of getting to know each other.

6. Make Compliments

Women like to feel beautiful and to be complimented. Many times they buy new accessories, change some elements of their style and hope to hear compliments with reference to this. Observe things and try to find sincere and smart compliment. The first thing to say to a woman is that she looks beautiful. To keep the biggest impact, keep other compliments up throughout the date, but not more than 4 in order not to appear unreal.

7. Prepare the Topic

To avoid silent moments during your date, do your homework – think in advance about what you would like to know about her and what topic would transform your meal in an interesting discussion. You may find a general subject that would not require special knowledge, but avoid asking and talking about past relations. During your conversation keep the focus on the subject, be involved, interested and address attention to her.

8. Pay for Both

Despite the fact that nowadays women may insist to go dutch while paying for a meal, men shall offer to pay entirely for the date. It is already considered an old custom, but you will show that you are gentlemen, fact that will show positive qualities of yourself. For avoiding any misunderstandings, make sure she knows you are going to pay for the date.

9. Kiss Her Goodnight

A quick kiss after the fist date usually shows to both of you whether you are attracted by each other. Some women, on the other side, prefer not to be kissed after the first date and you should be really careful in this case. In any case, you should follow body language in order to determine the following move.

10. Don’t Promise to Call

Women are sensitive and anything you say may be taken as serious. If, after the first meeting, you are not interested in seeing her again, don’t promise to call. Thus, not to hurt the woman you just dated, tell her it was nice to meet her or just smile to her and leave.

Middle aged males like you are more likely have higher incomes, more assets compared to your younger suitors and more desperate to attract potential mates. They know very well your weakness and they are expert at manipulating your feeling. All their concern about you is your willingness to open your heart to them and later on open your wallet.

If you are on online dating scene-always double your safety guard sense on alert before swimming in those deep wild love pool. I know—you may say: DON’T GIVE OUT personal data, No Telephone No., No address or Office address, and most importantly NO your bank accounts information to her before you’re really know her.

Do you believe the woman you’ve been emailing back and forth for months using yahoo free email service is really a woman? Or The Hotmail lady you’ve been IM-ing is a real potential mate? Mostly those woman and Hotmail ladies are actually professional male romance scammers who pose as women in order to seduce you.

They are able to do this because there are typically more male members in most online dating services and also because most of the communication is conducted via emails and Instant Messaging. If they have to, the romance scammers will hire a female voice to talk to you.

There are more than 8 scenarios these scammers use to seduce you to bite their bait but I will list 2 most recognized scenarios only as below:

1. Online Matching Dating service scenario

These romance scammers target YOU by posting fake profiles and tend to hide behind beautiful photographs. They will claim they are from USA, UK, or Europe countries and are working abroad on short term project.

They seek quickly to establish contact then set about establishing intimacy, declaring love, and expressing strong desire to be physically with their victims. They usually work in a group and know how to push your sentimental button.

Victims are conned to believe that they have found their soul mate and wedding are on the way, at last! What the victims do not know is they are exploiting their dreams, ambition and love with the wedding offer.

Watch out those Yahoo women Hotmail ladies, especially from West Africa (especially Nigeria), Eastern Europe, Thailand and Philippines.

2. Mail Order Brides Scenario

Eastern Europe romance scammers tend to use the Mail Order Bride services to scam their victims. These ladies are attractive and quickly establish and declare to their victims that these poor guys are their soul mate and their dream partner.

But before the victims could claim their future wife, they must pay her passport, fiancée visa, ticket, and a huge sum of money in order to make her fly to the victims places. Needless to say, this thing never materialized. The victims always left with empty wallet and more broken hearted than ever.

Watch out those mail order brides from Russia.

you never get a second chance to make a good first impression

is so true when it comes to discussing this topic. When you first meet a girl, a first impression is entirely important; otherwise the girl wouldn’t even talk to you.
Since you got that out of the way, the next part is asking the girl out on a date, which is usually a tough thing for a guy to do. Once you’ve done that, it’s time to get ready for that date. One thing you might want to do before you go on your first date is shower.
Many guys think that they can dab on some deodorant and some cologne and they are fine, but what they don’t know is that your pores might still stink from all the sweating you’ve done during the day. Take my advice; take a shower before you go on your first date! The whole impressing the date with a fancy car and fancy clothes really isn’t as important as arriving on time and the girl will appreciate that more than the other two. Normally if you’re late on a first date or any date, the girl will think you might have stood or up which can lead her to believe that you would do that more than once, which would lessen your chances of seeing her again. Showing up on time is an important role in the dating game so make sure you do so.

Since we’ve gotten the first part of the dating scene out of the way for the man, we now should move on to even a more basic role in the dating game, being a gentleman. There are so many things you can do for a girl that will impress her once you’ve made it past her house, or even if you are at her house. Holding the door for the girl, give her a hug or a kiss; shake her parent’s hands, etc. These are just a few to name, but the list goes on and on. Once you’ve left the house, make sure you pull in or out her chair if you are going out to eat or let her walk in first. While the whole “being a gentleman” part of the date is tedious in its own way, there is always the conversation part that can be quite stressful also. Woman love to chat, so make sure you can put on a great conversation act. If you know what the girl is into, then bring up topics that she’d be interested in. Whatever you do, don’t bore her with information either about yourself in a conceded way or stuff that makes absolutely no sense, she’d probably be laughing “at” you not “with” you.

Once the date is over, you will more than likely drive the girl back to her house. If you are really interested in her, you will be the gentleman that you are and give her a nice goodnight kiss or a hug, some girls like hugs on the first date but that’s something you will have to decide since all girls are different. One thing many guys do is tell the girl that they will call her again and don’t. That is a big “no-no” and can really hurt your chances of finding another girl around that area, especially if the girl you are seeing is friends with a lot of other girls in that particular area. If you are interested in the girl and you would like to call her again, let her know, otherwise just end the date with a goodbye, etc.

Don’t make excuses! Don’t qualify your apology and don’t blame her for your words or actions. If she still has feelings for you, a sincere apology is one of the best ways to prove to her that you are worthy of a second chance.

2nd Tip on How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back: Act like you just started dating. Girls want to feel special. She obviously feels hurt – that’s why she borke up, right? She is hurt and/or annoyed with your behavior so guess what you have to do to get her back – change your behavior. Start listening. Do nice things for her. Romantic things like you used to do before you started seriously dating. Be creative. Flowers and chocolate are good but they may not be enough. Think about how you can really make her feel special…then do it.

4th Tip on How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back: Change! This is a no-brainer. Think back over what you fought about…was it a one time occurence? Was it something she often compained about? Is it something that she warned you about but you didn’t listen. Many times guys feel to proud to change…that is a bad sign for your relationship. Both partners need to learn to compromise. If she used to say your lazy and lack ambition, prove her wrong. If she said you were untrustworthy, stop whateverf made her believe that. You get the point.

5th Tip on How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back: Talk to her friends. Yep, it sounds horrible but this tip may be your best bet. She has been busy talking to all her girlfriends about what a jerk you are and they are there confirming it by saying she can do better…can she? If you don’t think so, then call up her friends and tell them how upset and sorry you are. Ho much you miss your ex and wish you had her back. Get them on your team and before long they’ll be encouraging her to give you a second chance.

6th Tip on How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back: Lunch Date. Ok, it’s obvious she needs some time to figure things out. You really screwed up after all. Tell her that and then just say you want to see her. Something casual…like a lunch date. Keep it light…talk about work, the weather, whatever. Shower her with compliments. Tell her you miss her but dont go overboard. It’ll get her thinking if she made the right decision.

7th Tip on How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back: The Love Letter. No, emails aren’t ok! Sit down with a cup of coffee and make a list of why you like this girl so much anyway. Why do you miss her? Right it down. Right down how she makes you feel. Write down why you are sorry and possibly why you or said what you did. Be vulnerable! You’ll be surprised what the pen can do to heal heartbreak.

That’s it. Getting your ex girlfriend back is up to you. Try the tips above. If you think you need more and let’s face it, your probably will, try the link below and Good Luck!

Great Ex Girlfriend’s Revenge!

Here are 10 tips for men that will help things go smoothly:

1. Have a Bath and Shave

One of the worst things you could do when going out on a date (especially if it is your first date) is to turn up unshaven, looking dirty and smelling. Women will partly judge you on how hygienic you are. After all, you would be appalled if she turned up for the date looking like a mutt dog with tangled fur that hadn’t bathed for days.

Do a “personal check” before the date – are your fingernails clean, hair neat, clothes ironed, shoes polished, and any odors under control (including breath)? Women look at these things and are aware if they aren’t in check. You should be too!

It doesn’t cost anything to take a bath and to make an effort to look and smell nice. Remember, bad breath and body odor are an instant turn off and she will assume that this is how you are all the time even if you are just having a bad day. As a result, she won’t be able to see beyond your appearance.

Whatever you do, don’t turn up late. Turning up late will send out all the wrong impressions. At first she may think she’s been stood up, but after arriving late her opinion will change to you being unreliable or not caring enough about her to be on time.

If you are picking her up from her home then it is advisable to turn up five minutes before you are due. Any earlier and you might catch her adjusting her makeup or still getting ready. Five minutes early is the earliest you should arrive. But never be late.

3. Give Her a Thoughtful Gift

A woman feels special when the man she is with gives her a thoughtful gift. What is a thoughtful gift? Well, you obvious know some things about a woman before a first date that came from phone conversations, emails, etc. Take what you know and buy her an appropriate date gift. For example, let’s say that the woman really likes golf. There are companies that make chocolate golf sets – a miniature chocolate club with a chocolate tee and chocolate golf ball. This would make a great first date gift. For a generic thoughtful gift, buy a chocolate rose. That’s always appropriate without being overboard.

4. Be a Gentleman

Hold the door open for her, let her walk through the doors first, pull her chair, and be polite to her along with the people around you. Women like to feel special and by treating her like a lady she will think you are fantastic.

5. Compliment Her

The first thing to say to her is “you look beautiful” before you even ask how she is. Keep up the compliments throughout your date, but do not go over board (3-4 for the night should be more than enough). A woman loves to be complimented, to feel beautiful and to think that you are attracted to her. The more sincere and observant your compliment, the bigger impact it will have. But remember again not to go overboard. More than four compliments may make you appear fake and not real.

6. Listen to Her and Ask Questions

Nobody wants to spend the whole night listening to someone talk about themselves. But you do have to get to know each other. Ask her questions, but more importantly listen to what she has to say. A woman is attracted to a man who is genuinely interested in hearing what she has to say. Spend a lot more time asking her questions and letting her talk than talking yourself.

7. Prepare for the Conversation

The last thing you want is to be sitting at a meal with nothing to talk about. Think about your date and what you would like to know about her. You may think that it is easy to talk and that you will not run out of questions to ask or that you will automatically have the answers but until you are in the situation, you have no idea what it will be like. Avoid talking about past relationships or other women while on the date. Keep your focus, attention, and conversation fully on her.

8. Pay for the Date

It’s virtually always appropriate for a gentleman to offer to pay for the date. When a man takes it upon himself to pay for the date, he is displaying that old act of “chivalry” that is missing from many men these days. However, some women feel more comfortable going “dutch” and if she insists on this, then don’t resist. To avoid awkwardness, make sure you let her know before the date that you plan on paying for it.

9. The Goodnight Kiss

Some women prefer not to kiss after a first date, while others may be disappointed if the guy doesn’t even try. There is no easy answer to this question. Body language and chemistry throughout the night is key in the decision you make. If it feels right, then you may want to consider making the move. If it doesn’t feel right then a friendly hug may be more appropriate.

10. I’ll Call You

Only tell her that you will call her if you mean it and intend on seeing her again. Do not, under any circumstances, tell her you will call her if you are not interested and have no plans to call her. In this case, when saying goodbye, just say, “It was nice meeting you” and wish her luck. Or you could just say good night, smile and walk away. But if you do like her and are interested, then you must let her know.